{"id":3847,"date":"2019-03-19T00:31:48","date_gmt":"2019-03-18T23:31:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.psychologyandi.com\/?p=3847"},"modified":"2019-03-19T00:58:35","modified_gmt":"2019-03-18T23:58:35","slug":"the-effects-of-yelling-at-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.psychologyandi.com\/the-effects-of-yelling-at-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"The Effects of Yelling at Kids"},"content":{"rendered":"

Most parents have totally lost the power to regulate their emotions, as they take them out on their children via yelling. This mode of correction raises unhappy kids who resist parents’ guidance.<\/p>\n

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The Effects of Yelling at Children<\/a><\/div>\n

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Strict parents yell at kids in the public, yell in the car, yell in the house, and sometimes close the windows so the neighbors won’t hear.<\/p>\n

Not minding the parent’s personality or our personal child-rearing belief, the truth remains that, yelling is arguably, one of the ways parent mentally hurt<\/a> their kids; it\u00a0screws up their lives and haunt them mentally.<\/p>\n

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Children misbehave when they feel discouraged or powerless. When you use discipline methods that overpower them or make them feel bad about themselves, you lower their self-esteem,” says Kathryn J. Kvols, author of ‘Redirecting Children\u2019s Behavior.<\/strong>‘<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

According to Capt Tom Bunn, who pinpointed the findings made by Stephen Porges<\/a>; the signals humans send and receive unconsciously have a massive effect on emotions.<\/p>\n

The author of “SOAR: The Breakthrough Treatment for Fear of Flying,” <\/strong>also emphasized on the need for parents to interact with their kids in an empathic, non-critical and non-judgmental.<\/p>\n

This he said would help the parent become a built-in calming influence.<\/p>\n

Yelling at your child isn’t really effective as you may think; there are so many powerful strategies to be employed to help influence your child and raise for yourself a cooperating child you ever wanted.<\/p>\n

Why don’t you focus on rewarding positive behaviors rather than punishing your kids for the inappropriate ones?<\/p>\n

You will undoubtedly have no reason to pick on yelling at you kids, if you would create a loving environment with consistent praise and rewards for the things they do right.<\/p>\n

Read also : 4 Things You Should Never Tell Your Kids<\/a><\/strong><\/h4>\n

Perri Klass, M.D., <\/em>coauthor of\u00a0‘Quirky Kids: Understanding and Helping Your Child Who Doesn’t Fit In,’ said:<\/p>\n

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Discipline strategies should be age-related. You can’t “spoil” a 3-month-old by picking him up when he cries. Infants need to know that their caregivers are responsive to their needs and wants and that hunger, discomfort\u00a0and, yes, even loneliness will be addressed.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n