3 Tactics Emotional Abusers Use

Manipulators have with them various manipulative strategies through which they explore and get their needs met. At times, many ‘normal’ behaviors are manipulative, just as how babies act cute so they could be fed.

From what I’ve seen so far, it takes lots of skills and intelligence to be a manipulator; every manipulator needs ability to read and understand emotions. Unfortunately, many people have been falling freely for the games being played by them, and this is unconnected to the fact that majority don’t really know who emotional abusers are.

Silent Treatment.

Verbal silence is an abusive tactic and effective form of emotional manipulation being used by people with narcissistic tendencies. They do this to stress you out, get you angry, confused and mad. Literally, silent treatment is to inflict pain on you without visible bruising.

‘Excluding and ignoring people, such as giving them the cold shoulder or silent treatment, are used to punish or manipulate, and people may not realise the emotional or physical harm that is being done,’ Kipling Williams, a Professor of Psychology at Purdue University, said.

One study found that, in response to social rejection, the dorsal anterior cingulate cortex is activated – the part of the brain that detects physical pain. During this emotional torture, the brain detects the pain and tries to find solutions, but can’t. The victims are then left with no other option than to go for any means to be relieved, even if it costs them their dignity.

Silent treatment can include the refusal to engage in general conversation, refusing to make eye contact, intentionally withholding physical contact, emotions e.t.c.

Moses Chukwu


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