I think sex, she thinks friend! You’ve been trying to woo her into becoming more than a friend, you’ve tried bailing out yourself from her friend-zone. But, the more you make an attempt, the greater she decodes your attempts into wanting to be just friend. Why? Because you don’t know how to flirt.
It’s obvious that so many people find it so hard to easily understand you and decipher flirting from non-flirting. You actually might be the reason for that i.e. your attempts might not be okay enough to be tagged flirting moves, or that some flirts just aren’t perceived as flirting.
It is important to realize that when men and women look at the same behavior, men are more likely see behaviors as more flirtatious, seductive and promiscuous, says Dr. Gary W. Lewandowski Jr. a Professor and Chair of the Department of Psychology at Monmouth University.
Below are some flirting moves you need to know or add to your existing flirting moves:
Stopping While it’s Still Fun
To make your flirting interaction a victorious one, you don’t have to wait for the fun to die a natural death. You need to stop the fun at a point when it’s still fun. By doing this, your new friend will always feel the utmost joy while thinking about you, and would definitely like to see you once again.
Get Caught While Gazing.
Being scared or shameful? Most people instantly change their direction when they discover their target looks at them. Instead, steadily gaze for a while when you are caught, smile, hold eye contact, finally change direction.
Asking “What’s the Story Behind That?”
This helps you give way for more conversation as well as making the object know that you’d really wanted to hear from her. E.g. “You are looking so stylishly today. What’s the Story Behind That?”